Man Explains Why He Refused To Give A Woman Soldier Her Seat On A Plane

Published on 02/02/2022

A large group of people was packed into a small space with limited legroom, and Jessica took in the scene. The female officer sighed, knowing that she would have to endure another long flight back to the United States. It became even worse for her after she took a seat. Her flight was clearly going to be difficult, but she had no idea how difficult it was going to be until she boarded the plane herself. When she arrived at her seat, however, a man approached her and refused to grant her to sit in the seat she had reserved. She was puzzled and had absolutely no idea what was going on.. It was only when he opened his mouth to explain that she realized what he had done. That she couldn’t take it any longer was crystal clear to her mind.

The Real Reason This Man Won’t Let Female Soldier Take Her Seat On The Plane

The Real Reason This Man Won’t Let Female Soldier Take Her Seat On The Plane

Her Training Has Prepared Her For Many Things

She had been a military apprentice for a number of years prior to that. As an outcome of her training, she had learned to deal with a wide range of situations. When the man came up to her, however, she was rendered completely speechless by the experience. She couldn’t help but be perplexed by what she was hearing. To put it mildly, she had absolutely no idea what was about to take place.

Her Training Has Prepared Her For Many Things

Her Training Has Prepared Her For Many Things

She Was A Part Of A Military Minority

The female military population totaled 16 percent of the total military population in 2017. Though only a small number, this figure has been steadily rising in recent months. Even though these female officers may go unrecognized, they are outstanding individuals. It was Jessica who chose a path that was not always available to others who found themselves in her situation. It is possible that this is applicable to the current situation, however.

She Was A Part Of A Military Minority

She Was A Part Of A Military Minority

On Her Way Home For The Holidays

In any case, where was she headed in the first place? On the other hand, Jessica had just returned from spending the holidays with her family in their home.  Due to the fact that it had been so long since she had seen them, she was overjoyed. For her, being separated from her family and friends was a difficult situation to deal with. Despite this, she maintained a brave demeanor and attempted to serve her country to the best of her ability. She had no idea that this plane ride would be a little different from the others she had taken before it departed.

On Her Way Home For The Holidays

On Her Way Home For The Holidays

Not Much Space On The Flight

Jessica walked up to the boarding gate, her passport in her hand, ready to board. She had a feeling something wasn’t quite right from the moment she sat down in her airplane seat. Flights can be a source of anxiety. It is possible to be in a very difficult situation. Nobody enjoys the feeling of being crammed into a small space with limited movement space. Despite this, it has always been the most practical means of getting from one place to another for most people. Jessica reminded herself of this throughout the suffocating flight. What, on the other hand, was different about this flight?

Not Much Space On The Flight

Not Much Space On The Flight

She Was Used To Getting Strange Looks

Because the flight was overbooked, she didn’t have any space to stretch her legs or get comfortable during the flight. This was terrible enough as is, but she had the distinct impression that someone was looking at her. Jessica was no stranger to being thrust into such a situation. It was almost certainly due to a lack of female soldiers in the military. Women in uniform were frequently taken aback when they were seen by the general public. She realized that this was the same reason why the stranger had been staring at her so intently earlier in the evening. She was, however, mistaken in her assessment.

She Was Used To Getting Strange Looks

She Was Used To Getting Strange Looks

Her Desire To Serve Her Country

Her legs were cramped and she couldn’t find a comfortable position on the plane because of overbooking. This was bad enough on its own, but she had the distinct impression that someone was staring at her from behind her back. Having dealt with similar situations before, Jessica was well versed in the subject matter. Because of a lack of female soldiers in the military, this was most likely the cause. When people saw a woman in uniform, they were frequently taken aback. She realized that this was the same reason why the stranger had been staring at her so intently earlier in the conversation. But she was mistaken in her assessment.

Her Desire To Serve Her Country

Her Desire To Serve Her Country

Economy Is The Most Affordable Option

Who hasn’t fantasized about traveling in as much comfort as possible? Unfortunately, economy seats are much less expensive than business and first-class. For most people, the savings outweigh the inconvenience. Jessica was well aware of the situation, but she was unconcerned. She was, after all, far too eager to return home!

Economy Is The Most Affordable Option

Economy Is The Most Affordable Option

What Her Boarding Said

Jessica took her seat in the plane’s back row, dressed in her uniform. She checked her boarding pass and discovered that she had been assigned to seat 31-B. She knew it would take some time because it was so far away. She got a sneak peek at the business class seats when she boarded the plane. Even though they appeared to be very inviting and spacious, she couldn’t afford them on her salary.

What Her Boarding Said

What Her Boarding Said

There Was A Delay

She had no idea that someone was talking about her as she looked for her seat. This stranger approached the air hostess and expressed his dissatisfaction. Jessica carried her belongings all the way up to the 31st row of seats. The female officer took her seat after stowing her shoulder bag in the overhead compartment. The plane, however, took a long time to take off. There had to be some sort of hiccup.

There Was A Delay

There Was A Delay

Not Happy With The Delayed Flight

Jessica sensed something wasn’t quite right. She didn’t have a choice but to make the best of the situation. Nonetheless, she was disappointed that she would have to stay in that cramped space for twenty minutes longer than she had anticipated. However, the truth was that she was to blame for the delay…

Not Happy With The Delayed Flight

Not Happy With The Delayed Flight

The Whispers Erupted All Of A Sudden

It was obvious that something wasn’t quite right. She couldn’t put her finger on it, but her instincts were correct. Bad weather is a common cause of delays, but they had clear skies that day. She wanted to inquire about it, but no flight attendant was available. People started whispering nervously all of a sudden.

The Whispers Erupted All Of A Sudden

The Whispers Erupted All Of A Sudden

They Acted Secretive And Strange

This is when she first noticed the cabin crew. They appeared to be acting oddly. They dashed to a corner of the cabin in a stealthy flurry. Jessica was curious as to whether or not something was wrong. They were, in fact, discussing one of the passengers. Said person was also approaching Jessica at the time!

They Acted Secretive And Strange

They Acted Secretive And Strange

What His Real Intentions Were

Jessica was well aware that she had done nothing to merit attention. She had no idea what the man was looking for. In any case, she was keeping a close eye on him and pondering what she should do. She was taught how to survive and deal with a variety of situations. Nothing could possibly surprise her, could it?

What His Real Intentions Were

What His Real Intentions Were

It Was Not Standard Procedure

The flight attendants were giggling and covering their faces with their hands. This was clearly not a standard part of the procedure. Jessica despised the feeling of being in the dark. When she stepped out in uniform, she didn’t mind the whispers and stares, but this was different. Despite her decision to look past it, she remained on edge the entire time.

It Was Not Standard Procedure

It Was Not Standard Procedure

She Had A Soldier’s Eyes

Her training had been extremely exhausting and intense, but it had made some things easier. When she needed something, she could always rely on what she had learned. Even so, she didn’t want any trouble on that particular day. Even though she was not at work, she had no way of knowing when a threat would arise that needed to be dealt with. She became aware of the man approaching her all of a sudden.

She Had A Soldier’s Eyes

She Had A Soldier’s Eyes

He Was A Handsome Stranger

He was quite tall. Jessica also noticed that he was a dashing young man with blue eyes and attractive features. He looked sharp in a suit and tie, which helped. Was he going to try to get her phone number? He went in her direction with purpose and confidence, so it wasn’t out of the realm of possibility. It was something she’d seen many times before. However, she was taken aback when he spoke to her.

He Was A Handsome Stranger

He Was A Handsome Stranger

Wondering About His Intentions

As he continued to approach her, her thoughts raced. Before he was right in front of her, it felt like an eternity had passed. He did indeed want something from her, as she had suspected. His motives were plain to see on his face. She was taken aback by what he said when he opened his mouth.

Wondering About His Intentions

Wondering About His Intentions

It Was About Her Seat

What could a complete stranger possibly want from her? He addressed her and posed a question to her. Jessica was mistaken in thinking he didn’t want her phone number. He also didn’t inquire about her military service. Instead, he directed his finger to her seat. Everything he wanted from her seemed to revolve around it.

It Was About Her Seat

It Was About Her Seat

What The Mysterious Man Told Her

He took a step closer and pointed to the seat. When he told her that her seat was already taken, he didn’t even pause. With wide eyes, she looked around. That can’t be right, can it? The man said, “I’m in your seat.” She had no idea what he was talking about. “What does your ticket say?” he inquired.

What The Mysterious Man Told Her

What The Mysterious Man Told Her

She Had No Idea What He Was Saying

“What? She insisted, “No, I’m 31 B.” She had no intention of taking this lying down, as it was stated in her ticket. She double-checked, confident that she was correct. Was he teasing her in some strange way? Jessica gave the flight attendants a sidelong glance. They simply nodded at her, much to her surprise. What was going on?

She Had No Idea What He Was Saying

She Had No Idea What He Was Saying

Perhaps He Was Actually Delusional

Was he hallucinating? It didn’t make any sense at all. He appeared to be dressed up and out of place in that section of the plane. The flight attendants, on the other hand, appeared to be on his side. Jessica was completely unaware that he was trying to make a point. When she heard what he had to say next, everything became clear…

Perhaps He Was Actually Delusional

Perhaps He Was Actually Delusional

All Because She Was A Soldier

The stranger tried to explain things to her. She was unable to take this seat because she was a servicewoman. He complimented her on how hard she worked to keep Americans safe, but she had to sit somewhere else. She stepped back and let him speak for himself. As you might expect, she did not anticipate getting into this much trouble when she boarded the plane.

Because She Was A Soldier

All Because She Was A Soldier

He Wanted To Switch Seats With Her

As a token of gratitude, the man said he would be honored if she exchanged tickets with him. He wanted to express his gratitude for her efforts. He was in business class, after all! Jessica couldn’t believe what she was hearing. She tried to decline because it was too much for her. But he was adamant. She had no idea at the time that this was not the end of it.

He Wanted To Switch Seats With Her

He Wanted To Switch Seats With Her

She Did Not See This Coming

She eventually accepted his offer. She got to her feet and walked back down the aisle. This was not at all what she had anticipated. The allure of the comfortable and spacious seats, on the other hand, was too much for her to bear. Jessica was concerned because she had no way of repaying him. Despite this, she was exhausted from working so hard for days on end. Her entire body ached, but did she truly deserve this?

She Did Not See This Coming

She Did Not See This Coming

The Trip Was A Reward In And Of Itself

She was simply relieved to be returning home after such a long absence. Jessica saw it as a reward for all of her hard work. When this kind stranger offered her something she could never afford with her own money, she was taken aback. She had a lot of questions for the gentleman who offered up his seat for her.

The Trip Was A Reward In And Of Itself

The Trip Was A Reward In And Of Itself

How To Pay Him Back For It

She knew the kind man was bigger and older than her, so the economy class seats would be even more uncomfortable for him. Jessica felt bad because he was probably cramped in the seat that was supposed to be for her. It was now her turn to make this stranger’s day! But how could she repay him for all he had done for her?

How To Pay Him Back For It

How To Pay Him Back For It

What She Could Do For Him

She was at a loss for what she could do to make the flight at least a little more comfortable for him. Jessica discussed it with a flight attendant, but she was limited in her options. After all, she couldn’t even send items to the economy seats. She’d have to come up with something else if she wanted to make amends with him. But what options did she have?

What She Could Do For Him

What She Could Do For Him

He Must Be Uncomfortable In Her Seat

Jessica was concerned about how he must be feeling in economy class. She knew, however, that if she offered to trade seats again, he would decline. It was for this reason that she took out a pen and a piece of paper. She clipped a $20 bill and asked one of the stewardesses to deliver it to the kind man on her behalf after writing a note on it.

He Must Be Uncomfortable In Her Seat

He Must Be Uncomfortable In Her Seat

Trying To Repay His Kindness

It was now his turn to be taken aback! When he read her note, he was taken aback. “The world would be a better place if everyone treated people the way you treated the servicewoman,” it said. She also requested that he bring her some snacks and drinks. Regardless, he turned down her offer.

Trying To Repay His Kindness

Trying To Repay His Kindness

He Did Not Take Her Up On It But…

Despite the fact that he did not accept her offer, he did respond to her. Jessica smiled as she read it. He had a completely different plan in mind. Why don’t you all get together for dinner once the plane lands? Of course, it was going to be his fault. Jessica couldn’t help but wonder if they were on a date. As she wrote back to him, her stomach was fluttering.

He Did Not Take Her Up On It But…

He Did Not Take Her Up On It But…

The Two Of Them Got Dinner Together

She accepted without hesitation. As you might expect, his deed endeared the stranger to her. They went to a restaurant at the end of the flight and shared a meal. In the face of excitement, all of her exhaustion and weariness vanished. She couldn’t believe such a thing could happen!

The Two Of Them Got Dinner Together

The Two Of Them Got Dinner Together

It Was A Very Pleasant Surprise

The truth was that she had already made up her mind that it would be a bad day. What a blunder she made on that one. If it hadn’t been for the kind man, none of this would have happened. Similarly, he was taken aback by the note and money she sent him. Another passenger had a front-row seat and was able to see everything that was going on in real-time. They only went viral after they shared the story on the internet!

A Very Pleasant Surprise

It Was A Very Pleasant Surprise

How The Story Got Out In The First Place

Jessica Titus is the name of the woman who was on the flight that day and witnessed what happened. She decided to share her story online in the hopes of inspiring others to feel empathy and compassion. It went viral almost immediately. In fact, her post received 4,000 shares in the first hour after it was published!

How The Story Got Out In The First Place

How The Story Got Out In The First Place

Not The Only Time It Has Happened

What’s even more amazing is that others have chimed in with similar stories. One family related what transpired during a vacation. “We witnessed this while on vacation. An older businessman handed over his first-class seat to a soldier! This netizen added, “We all cheered for him.”

Not The Only Time It Has Happened

Not The Only Time It Has Happened

There Are Still Kind People Out There

Apart from the witnesses, the people who were involved in the stories also spoke about their own experiences. Someone once did that for Kate Nixon’s husband, she said. At the time, he was serving in the army. They were on their way home and were taken aback by the thoughtful gesture. We would have done the same!

There Are Still Kind People Out There

There Are Still Kind People Out There

In The Hands Of Ordinary People

“Politicians and celebrities aren’t the ones who make America great. It’s people like this man,” someone who was taken aback by the story said. “’Ordinary’ people doing extraordinary deeds to help their fellow man,” another netizen added. Let us never forget that each of us has the ability to make a difference in the world in both small and large ways.

In The Hands Of Ordinary People

In The Hands Of Ordinary People

You Can Always Make Someone Feel Better

Isn’t it amazing how this story came to be? We love hearing stories like this one about random acts of kindness. Although the anonymous man had never met Jessica, he knew enough about her to recognize her as a heroine in her own right. What matters is that he recognized her efforts. This alone is enough to restore our faith in humanity! Let us keep in mind to be kind to others whenever possible.

If you thought that was a touching story, keep reading to learn about these incredible events that occurred to veterans before, during, and after their service in the military.

You Can Always Make Someone Feel Better

You Can Always Make Someone Feel Better

The Medal of Honor

Dakota stood proudly as President Barack Obama presented him with the “Medal of Honor.” At this particularly proud moment, the memories of his heroic actions must have been fresh in his mind. His actions saved many lives by allowing him to escape the troublesome Taliban and return to his homeland. We can only applaud this soldier for putting his life on the line for the good of others.

The Medal of Honor

Turning Back The Clock

Dakota and his unit can be found in the Kunar Province of Afghanistan if we go back to September 2009. At this point, the war with the Taliban had been going on for a long time, and US forces were stationed in many key areas of Afghanistan. Dakota’s unit had set out on foot, accompanied by some soldiers from the Afghan National Army, to protect anti-Taliban elderly people in Ganjgal.

Turning Back The Clock

The Battle of Ganjgal

Dakota and his comrades were well aware that they would not receive air support because, given their proximity to civilians, it was simply too dangerous. The soldiers continued on their way with the help of available artillery. Upon arrival, however, the unit was ambushed by more than 100 Taliban militants on multiple sides. Intelligence had hinted at the possibility, but nowhere near this magnitude. Dakota and his unit were put in an awkward situation and had to maintain their composure.

The Battle of Ganjgal

Tactics

Despite requesting artillery support, the request was denied due to the possibility of significant civilian casualties. Other air support, such as helicopters, was also under fire at another location. To put it mildly, the unit was in an uncomfortable situation. They were surrounded, and the assistance they had hoped for had vanished. To get out of this situation, it took a great tactical decision.

Response

Dakota and another marine were quick to react. Due to their isolation, four team members had no choice but to commandeer an Afghan National Army truck and drive to their desired location, despite Taliban fire. Dakota manned the machine gun, protecting his fellow soldiers while deterring the enemy militants, despite the fact that he needed to make five return trips. They were able to relieve pressure on teammates, allowing the unit to recover.

Hero

Dakota was without a doubt a hero. The determination to keep driving through live fire in order to save a fellow man can only be described as a heroic act. Twelve Afghan National Army soldiers were evacuated by him and his driver. Many of those who were evacuated were injured, but they were able to provide cover and support for other US soldiers and Afghan troops who were under Taliban attack.

A lone soldier

Dakota went one step further after the heroics that had already occurred. Dakota eventually had to dismount his vehicle and continue on foot due to the fire and chaos. Dakota continued on foot in the direction where the cut-off soldiers were supposed to be. He prevented their capture after locating their bodies and defeating a Taliban insurgent.

Origin

So, how did Dakota end up in the situation he did? Then to be awarded the Medal of Honor? Dakota was born and raised in Columbia, Kentucky, and after graduating from high school, he enlisted in the US Marine Corps at a recruitment station. Dakota completed his basic training after that and was well on his way to becoming a soldier.

Medals

Dakota and his coworkers deserved to be recognized, so it was only right that they did. Putting their lives on the line to help the unit despite being outmanned and without support was true heroism at its finest. Dakota and two other Marines from his team were told they would receive the Navy Cross after receiving the Medal of Honor; the second-highest award for valor a marine can receive.

A Presidential Meeting

Dakota was contacted by President Obama’s staff to set up a time for the President to call him and congratulate him on his bravery, as well as to inform him that his case for the Medal of Honor had been accepted. Dakota, on the other hand, had started working in construction at the time, and the Presidential staff had been told to call back later because he was busy at work. Dakota was finally able to schedule a meeting with the President, and his request for a beer with the President was granted.

Dakota is an inspiration, displaying levels of bravery and selflessness that most people can only aspire to. Read on to learn more about another hero veteran.

A Seattle Start

Patrick was born in Philip, South Dakota, and attended an all-boys high school in Seattle, Washington, where he showed an early interest in sports. Patrick enrolled in Seattle University’s Reserve Officers’ Training Corps program after graduating from high school. Patrick didn’t show much aptitude for the program at first, dropping out to reenter shortly after leaving to join the military as an officer.

The Beginning

Patrick was commissioned as a 2nd lieutenant in the Army Medical Service Corps after reentering the program. Patrick served for two years in West Berlin, after which he became the Motor Pool officer of a West Berlin hospital. Patrick progressed through the ranks, eventually becoming Detachment Commander and then graduating from the US Army School of Aviation. He was deployed to Vietnam shortly after a successful start to his military career.